Being social in a time of isolation

Today felt very social. I went to two grocery stores (because one didn‘t have one of the things on my list). I talked to two cashiers, one of whom I haven’t seen in ages. I took groceries and masks to my parents and ended up staying for lunch. I had been prepared to leave things on their step, but they welcomed some company and I have been careful about avoiding contact with others so I think it was okay. I talked to two of my neighbours - one while hanging out laundry for the first time this spring, and the other as I got back from collecting a game being given away by someone in the neighbourhood. There were lots of people out on my first little walk so I came straight home. I went for a second walk and got to see a new puppy (no patting though) and say hello to people who are all being extra polite because of social distancing. I grew up in Germany where it was practically mandatory to greet everyone on the street. I have always found Canadians cold in comparison. Maybe a side benefit will be a habit of more casual friendliness? I hope so. The last two happy things today were the sight of Jack, the son of another neighbour who has suddenly sprouted from being a little boy to looking like he is ready to get his driver’s license, and some chalk drawings on the sidewalk.


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